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Worrying About Losing Your Job: How to Steady Yourself

By Rewirology Editorial Team

Job insecurity is the ongoing worry that you might lose your job, without knowing whether you actually will. It shows up after layoff announcements, a reorg, a quiet quarter, or a manager's vague comment. Nothing has happened yet. That's exactly what makes it hard to put down.

Why is not knowing so hard to sit with?

Because there's nothing to do with it. If you lose a job, painful as that is, you can act: apply, budget, call people. If you might lose it, there's no action to take, just the waiting.

That's not just a feeling. Researchers at the University of Michigan tracking thousands of US workers found that persistent worry about losing a job predicted worse self-rated health and more depressive symptoms than actually losing one and finding new work (Burgard, Brand & House, 2009). One of the reasons they gave: with a real job loss, there's a moment, and support, and something to do. With ongoing uncertainty, there's neither.

So if you feel worn down by something that hasn't even happened, that's not you overreacting.

What actually helps

A few separate tools. Use whichever fits how the worry is showing up.

Separate what you can act on from what you can't. Write down what's actually worrying you, specifically, not "I might get laid off" but the real items underneath it. Then sort each one: can I do something about this today, or not? The ones you can act on become a short list. The ones you can't get set aside deliberately, not ignored, but put down on purpose. This comes from cognitive behavioural therapy and has been used in anxiety treatment since the 1980s (Borkovec et al., 1983).

Give the worry a time slot instead of all day. Uncertainty expands to fill whatever space it's given. Deciding you'll think about it for fifteen minutes at 6pm, rather than in every quiet moment, doesn't make it go away, but it stops it colonising the whole week.

Slow your body down when it spikes. A layoff email lands in someone else's inbox and yours goes cold. That's a physical response, and the physiological sigh settles it fastest: one long inhale through your nose, a second short sniff in on top of that, then one long exhale through your mouth, longer than the inhale felt. Repeat two or three times. A 2023 Stanford study found this improved mood and lowered physical stress markers more effectively than mindfulness meditation (Balban et al., 2023).

Take one small practical step, then stop. Updating your CV, or messaging one former colleague, does something the worrying doesn't: it converts helplessness into a small piece of evidence that you're not stuck. The stopping matters as much as the doing, one step, not a whole evening of doom-scrolling job boards.

If this worry peaks on a Sunday evening rather than during the working day, that's the Sunday scaries pattern, and the same anticipatory mechanism is driving it.

Is this normal, or a bigger problem?

Normal. Worrying about job security is one of the most commonly reported work stressors, and the research above shows it takes a real toll, this isn't something you should be able to shrug off.

It's worth a closer look if it's affecting your sleep, your appetite, or your ability to be present outside work, or if the worry has tipped into hopelessness about the future rather than fear about a specific outcome. That's worth talking to a doctor or therapist about.

If the exhaustion has gone beyond worry and settled into something more constant, this article on recovering from burnout may be more relevant.

Frequently Asked Questions

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This article is for general information and isn't a substitute for medical or mental health advice. If worry about your job is affecting your sleep, health, or daily functioning, or if you're feeling hopeless, talk to a doctor or therapist.

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